25. #FromGriefToGrowth – Through pain comes purpose


Where do young widows turn to when they find themselves thrown unexpectedly into grieving their partner?

According to the last Australian census, there are more than a million widowed adults in Australia. This is the unfortunate group Michelle Moriarty found herself in after becoming a widow at 38 years old with two young children in tow.

This week I chat to the Grief Connect founder and Agrifutures 2023 Rural Women’s Award Winner about creating support groups and tools to help others on their own grief journey.

This is a chat filled with hope and light, as you hear about Michelle using her platform to educate people about death and grief. I’d love to know what you found most inspiring about her story, share it with me over at @hashtag_death

In this episode we cover:

  • The definition of a widow
  • The misconceptions about grief and widowhood
  • Challenging the stigma for young widows
  • Initial exposure to death with grandparents
  • Being safe to have conversations about death
  • Becoming a widow at 38 with young kids
  • Wondering if grief will be permanent
  • Over time grief doesn’t lessen but it shifts
  • Grief is isolating
  • Finding small slithers of hope
  • Creating peer support groups
  • Winning the Agrifutures 2023 Rural Women’s Award
  • Why tools and language are so important in grief
  • What grief feels like years on
  • How winning an award opened many doors
  • Being prepared for death and having prior conversations.

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