24. #DVDoesn’tDiscriminate – One woman’s story of DV in any postcode in Australia
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to leave your whole life behind so you can flee to safety?
In this episode we look at the impact of domestic violence on successful career woman Marion Fulker AM. From a young girl suffering at the hands of her former husband, to someone who can now healthily nurture the vulnerable young woman inside her, Marion shares her story about escaping but leaving behind a city she loved so dearly. This is grief in another form.
Marion came from what looked like a very “successful” life, relationship, job and marriage. However, under the façade of flowers and favours was a control which she had to fight and fly halfway around the country to escape.
You’ll hear an amazing tale of resilience in the face of domestic violence, and how this crime can impact women from all walks of life.
Please note: This episode discusses domestic violence. If this raises any issue for you, please reach out to the appropriate helpline.
In this episode we cover:
- Growing up in a liberal household
- Experiencing a difficult childhood
- Career paths for females in the 60s
- Sexual harassment in the workplace
- Losing a father figure
- Unmet needs of the inner child
- Manipulation, persuasion and jealousy
- Escalating behaviours and living in fear
- A person in two halves – private and public personas
- Shifting world views through workplace exposure
- Leaving for another state, and the loss of that move
- Conflicting love of a new state
- Building a new life and career
- Being approached to tell your life story
- Learning how many others share this story
- Seeking counseling over the long term
- Becoming an advocate for domestic violence
- Healing isn’t linear.
Resources and links mentioned in this episode:
- #Hashtag Death Instagram: @hashtag_death
- Ways to work with Ingrid: forevernow.com.au
- Ingrid Reiger’s Facebook: @forevernowcelebrant
- Ingrid Reiger’s Instagram: @ingrid_forevernowcelebrant
- Marion Fulker AM | LinkedIn
- Breaking the stereotypes surrounding domestic violence (6pr.com.au)
- Lifeline: Call 13 11 14
- Domestic violence helpline: 1800 737 732
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